One of the most important things I’ve ever learned is that life goes on. People leave, relationships change, and things you loved become less fun. Parties end, seasons end, lives end. But good things happen too. It’s give and take, we lose and gain, things change for better and worse. We just have to accept and trust in that.
the other day my grandma told me, “when you and him are fighting, you both need to remember that it’s you two vs. the problem, not you vs. him.” and that hit me hard
But I just wanted her in my life. I had fallen in love, even if she was still finding her way.
‘I’m your girl,’ she said in the dark. ‘Your girl. No matter what I’m always your girl.’
If someone wants to be apart of your life they’ll make it happen. Actions speak louder than words and at some point you’ll get tired of justifying their actions. You deserve love where you receive as much as you give. If someone isn’t willing to work towards that kind of love then it’s okay to leave them. Remember that you are worth more than second thoughts and “maybes”.
It’s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self-love deficit.
